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dating

updated 2025-08-21

cw: nsfw (text-discussion about kink and sex)

dating apps suck and i have a domain, a functioning web page, and a place to kinda show who i am to the world and so here it is

this site (and the about section on the main page specifically) does a good job of explaining who i am (so read that first)

below is more dating specific details

author looking at the camera holding a laptop wearing a sleeveless shirt that says 404 on it

explore the site for more photos of me :3

stats

bdsm score

== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==
95% Non-monogamist 
93% Switch 
93% Submissive 
88% Pet 
83% Brat 
74% Voyeur 
71% Experimentalist 
68% Degradee 
65% Exhibitionist 
64% Little 
57% Primal (Prey) 
55% Vanilla 
52% Masochist 
43% Rope bunny 
41% Dominant 
40% Ageplayer 
24% Slave 
23% Owner 
18% Primal (Hunter) 
16% Rigger 
15% Daddy/Mommy 
9% Brat tamer 
9% Master/Mistress 
7% Sadist 
5% Degrader 

quotes

“gay anxious horny bottom”

“i predict i will be missing your loving, friendly presence, and the laughs and cuddles”

“you’re hot”

“chaotic af, kinda scatter brained, but smart if that makes sense”

“very direct and able to be vulnerable very easily (a good thing!) and the most ethically-minded and community-focused person ive met!”

“an iceberg. you’ve got a fun, flirty, smolder of a vibe when people meet you initially. then after getting to talk with you people see that you’ve got way more going on under the surface of the water”

“passionate, kind, clever, motivated by her values & playful/funny”

“you’re a good kisser”

“giving golden retriever young puppy, 4-6 months. Seeks out attention frequently, is outgoing in a friendly room, lil awkward, offers info about yourself readily, soft n likes pets, wants to wrestle”

“would cuddle”