dating
updated 2025-08-21
cw: nsfw (text-discussion about kink and sex)
dating apps suck and i have a domain, a functioning web page, and a place to kinda show who i am to the world and so here it is
this site (and the about section on the main page specifically) does a good job of explaining who i am (so read that first)
below is more dating specific details
explore the site for more photos of me :3
stats
- born: 1992
- location: portland, or
- height: 175 cm
- gender: transfem
- interested in: women, nbs, t4t
- relationship style: poly, relationship-anarchy
- looking for: casual, short-term, fwb, long-term if connects well
- position: technically switch, but pretty dang subby, sometimes pillow-princess
- cuddles: cuddles are the best
- awooo: yeppers, puppygirl
- pets: cat, Loki, born 2016-09-30
- kids: none, and personally not wanting to bring more ppl into this mess tbh (it’s okay if u do tho)
- food: as long as it’s vegan idc
- politics: leftist, acab, free-palestine, black-lives-mattter, dsa member, fuck terfs, union steward
- ai: ai is horrible and i hate it
- religion: atheist, buddhism is cool, veganism (/s, but not really),
- melts at: any praise, affection, teasing
- dealbreakers (i’m not interested if): you don’t have a therapist; anything rightwing of Bernie; not willing to be vegan in my house; not willing to use Signal; are deeply religious; and not willing to go on silly outdoor adventures
bdsm score
== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==
95% Non-monogamist
93% Switch
93% Submissive
88% Pet
83% Brat
74% Voyeur
71% Experimentalist
68% Degradee
65% Exhibitionist
64% Little
57% Primal (Prey)
55% Vanilla
52% Masochist
43% Rope bunny
41% Dominant
40% Ageplayer
24% Slave
23% Owner
18% Primal (Hunter)
16% Rigger
15% Daddy/Mommy
9% Brat tamer
9% Master/Mistress
7% Sadist
5% Degrader
quotes
“gay anxious horny bottom”
“i predict i will be missing your loving, friendly presence, and the laughs and cuddles”
“you’re hot”
“chaotic af, kinda scatter brained, but smart if that makes sense”
“very direct and able to be vulnerable very easily (a good thing!) and the most ethically-minded and community-focused person ive met!”
“an iceberg. you’ve got a fun, flirty, smolder of a vibe when people meet you initially. then after getting to talk with you people see that you’ve got way more going on under the surface of the water”
“passionate, kind, clever, motivated by her values & playful/funny”
“you’re a good kisser”
“giving golden retriever young puppy, 4-6 months. Seeks out attention frequently, is outgoing in a friendly room, lil awkward, offers info about yourself readily, soft n likes pets, wants to wrestle”
“would cuddle”