cw: nsfw (text-discussion about kink and sex)

dating apps suck and i have a domain, a functioning web page, and a place to kinda show who i am to the world and so here it is

this site (and the about section on the main page specifically) does a good job of explaining who i am (so read that first)

below is more dating specific details

stats

• born: 1992
• location: portland, or
• height: 175 cm
• gender: transfem
• interested in: women, nbs, t4t
• relationship style: polyamorous, relationship-anarchy
• looking for: friends (with benefits ig, but could be just cuddles); long-term romantic if connects well in that way; community that feels like found family
• position: technically switch, but pretty dang subby, sometimes pillow-princess
• cuddles: cuddles are the best
• awooo: yeppers, puppygirl
• pets: cat, Loki, born 2016-09-30
• kids: none, and personally not wanting to bring more ppl into this mess tbh
• food: as long as it’s vegan idc
• politics: leftist, acab, free-palestine, black-lives-mattter, dsa member, fuck terfs, union steward, fuck ICE, pineapple belongs on pizza
• ai: ai is horrible and i hate it
• religion: atheist, buddhism is cool, veganism (/s, but not really),
• melts at: any praise, affection, teasing
• im interested if you: have a therapist; are leftist in politics; are willing to be vegan in my house; are a Signal user; are some variety of atheist; wanna go on silly outdoor adventures with me (yaaaaayyyyyy!!!); know when ur polysaturated; view me as more than a play partner: i want ur friendship or romance on top of anything physical; message me first sometimes; are not afraid of commitment or deep relationships; are actively working on bettering communication skills; don’t hold grudges; aren’t monogamous; eschew umbrellas in favor of the rain jacket ^^

bdsm score

== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==
95% Non-monogamist 
93% Switch 
93% Submissive 
88% Pet 
83% Brat 
74% Voyeur 
71% Experimentalist 
68% Degradee 
65% Exhibitionist 
64% Little 
57% Primal (Prey) 
55% Vanilla 
52% Masochist 
43% Rope bunny 
41% Dominant 
40% Ageplayer 
24% Slave 
23% Owner 
18% Primal (Hunter) 
16% Rigger 
15% Daddy/Mommy 
9% Brat tamer 
9% Master/Mistress 
7% Sadist 
5% Degrader 

quotes

“gay anxious horny bottom”

“i predict i will be missing your loving, friendly presence, and the laughs and cuddles”

“you’re hot”

“chaotic af, kinda scatter brained, but smart if that makes sense”

“very direct and able to be vulnerable very easily (a good thing!) and the most ethically-minded and community-focused person ive met!”

“an iceberg. you’ve got a fun, flirty, smolder of a vibe when people meet you initially. then after getting to talk with you people see that you’ve got way more going on under the surface of the water”

“passionate, kind, clever, motivated by her values & playful/funny”

“you’re a good kisser”

“giving golden retriever young puppy, 4-6 months. Seeks out attention frequently, is outgoing in a friendly room, lil awkward, offers info about yourself readily, soft n likes pets, wants to wrestle”

“would cuddle”

“you are a cute pup n you take good pictures”

“Hi hi raven. Glad we made out!”

“you’re a real good pup. maybe one of the best ever.”

“excited for raven cuddles”

“u look good in a collar and nothing else 😘”

“i liked getting kicked out of the hallway w you 😏😏”

“You are very cute and such a sweetheart 🩷”